21. Februar 2017

Take the opportunity.

Spontaneous memories are the best memories.

Dear everyone who is reading this.

What I learned in my nearly 2 years of college is that you should make as many spontaneous actions as you can. It doesn't matter if it is a party, a gathering or just a chill night. Everything can be a great memory that you will always keep when you leave college or uni. You will never know if you will ever meet your new made friends again so make the best out of the time you have.

But I have to be honest with you here. I did not realise that I need to live my student life to the fullest until the end of the first semester. It was because I was not living near the college like the other students and I was daily driving home. I obviously tried to do as much as I can with them but it was just not the same as living here (near my college). So nearly at the end of 2015 I decided to move here because I saw that I will just miss out on so many amazing memories, and of course some I just rather forget about. So at the beginning of the second semester I moved and since then I just live my student life to the fullest.

Additionally I have to add that the first semester was not completely for nothing when it comes to socialising. In this semester I learned that I need to say no as well when I don't feel well or when I just have no motivation. It is such a normal thing for a human being to just say that they just want to spend a night on their own. Something like that is nothing to be ashamed of, you can't always be around people even if you are a peoples person. Another reason might be that you want to study because at the end you want a degree as well as good memories.

Probably you are asking what point I want to make. Once I am saying you should do as much as you can and next I say you should also say no. I am recommending you to do both. You should always try to make as many memories as possible because you only live once (yeah yeah yolo is out but the saying "you only live once" existed before yolo so...). BUT! now comes the big but, also know when you should take a time out. Listen to yourself. If your body or mind tells you not to do it then just not do it. But if you are just lazy then get your lazy ass out of bed and get those memories. And also don't forget what you are actually going to college for, you are going there to get a degree so never forget to hit the books from time to time. 

A friend once told me : 

"You are doing the student life right when you find the golden middle between going out & having fun and studying"


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